Victoria Greer · Free Resources

One for every child

The five type guides

Every child is built to run on energy in one of five ways. These are the whole guides, one per Human Design type, written for the parent doing the raising - not a summary of the system, but what it means at bedtime, at the door, in the middle of the hard afternoon.

Generator

Manifesting Generator

Projector

Manifestor

Reflector

How their energy actually works, and what it is for
How they are built to decide - and what to ask instead of "what do you want?"
What their particular frustration, anger or bitterness is telling you
The words that land with this child, and the ones that never will
What they need from you when the day has already gone wrong
Where you and they will rub, and what to do with that

Take the one for your child; the others keep - for the sibling, the stepchild, the friend who asks.

Two minutes

Don't know their type yet?

Their date, time and place of birth draws the full chart in the moment - every center, gate and channel - and names the type. Then you know which of the five guides is theirs. You can run your own while you are there.

See Their Chart

For the moment it is happening

The Be With Decks

Not theory - words. Fifty cards each, for the moments when it has already gone sideways and nothing you are saying is working.

50 Ways to Be With

Fifty scripted ways to be with your little one in the hard moments - what to say, and what to stop saying.

Be With the One Who Holds

The same turned toward you: fifty ways to be with the one doing the holding, on the days that ask everything.

The little book

Two Nervous Systems

For the night your baby is inconsolable and everything in you is saying fix this. It does not teach you to stop the crying. It shows you what is actually being asked of you: to be the steadier of the two nervous systems in the room, and to keep good company inside the storm rather than race to end it. It is the little book behind all of it, and the ground the rest of this page stands on.

The goal is not calm.
The goal is capacity.

Why ending the crying is the wrong target, and what the crying is really saying
Why a calm face on a panicking body never fools a baby
What capacity is instead, and how to find it on the nights you have none
The thirty seconds to start with when it is loud and you have gone blank

Written for the first year. It keeps being true long after.